I'm 5'5.5". Lost 11 lbs then gained about 50 lbs in maybe less than 2 years. I'm still overweight now. What do you think of me?

NOPE U SHOULD NOT. Stiff racket just mean that the racket is less subjective to flex on impact, giving more control and power. Its just personal feel preference.

I have preference for stiffer racquet too while my friends prefers 60 RA ones. If a racquet feels too stiff for you 2 things to adjust, String layup like eg, poly and multi hybrid to soften up the string bed or just strung a full bed of poly at lower tension ( around 40+ lbs), you will feel great. Do put a vibration dampener too.

Stiff frame tend to have more vibration feedback due to the stiffness nature as it absorb less impact, try getting a vibrational dampener to solve the issue or putting some leadtape to buff up the racket swingweight :) you can refer to this video with rough idea of stiffness effects: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=cUJ-WJY9...

I cant really gove you an answer,but what I can give you is a way to a solution, that is you have to find the anglde that you relate to or peaks your interest. A good paper is one that people get drawn into because it reaches them ln some way.As for me WW11 to me, I think of the holocaust and the effect it had on the survivors, their families and those who stood by and did nothing until it was too late.