Why do bad things happen to good people and good things happen to bad people?

Nobody ever said that life was fair. Good and bad things happen to everyone, just because they do. That's what life is, a balance of good and bad things.

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It's all in how you look at things I'm a good person, and good things happen to me all the time. The fact is that because I am a good person, I guess some might think good things SHOULD be happening to me and therefore it's unremarkable. Only if a bad thing happened would anyone notice, and therefore comment on it.

Bad things are the only noticeable things that happen to good people is a better way to say it. Sources: My opinion .

Because you get what you focus on. It's a simple rule of the universe, you get what you focus on. A good example of this is in skydiving, where people will get object fixation.In other words, there is an obstacle in their landing path that they are trying to avoid, and end up hitting, because that object is what they were focusing on.

It happens in driving as well, and it can happen in everyday life. You will attract what you focus on, so good people who maybe spend a bit of their time worrying about getting attacked, and who spend a bit of their focus on how to avoid being attacked are more likely to be attacked than a bad person who doesn't give it any thought. Also, negatives are not processed, so if you spend a lot of time thinking about what you don't want, you will likely attract it.

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Things happen to people. Some are good, some are bad. Some people are good, some people are bad.

There's no magic, no one looking down from above. There's no cosmic practical joker, no plan. There's a universe full of energy.

Some of that energy has coalesced into a thing called matter. That matter bangs around and interacts and collides with itself. In one tiny unimportant corner of that universe on a dust mote barely worthy of notice, some of that matter has by happenstance acquired the ability to know of its own existence and of the existence of the universe around it.

That matter, from its perspective, considers some of the banging around of matter to be "good," some to be "bad," and some of the other pieces of matter to be "good," and some to be "bad. " This is understandable, since that conscious matter wants to preserve itself as it is. But from the standpoint of the universe, its all just little marbles bouncing around.

There's no "why" to it.

" ""All things happen for the best. " Do you believe that?" "Do people consider you a stickler about things? If so what?

" "They say things happen in 3's...Is it just a coincidence or what?" "WHY DO BAD THINGS HAPPEN TO GOOD PEOPLE? " "How many people does it take for society to exist? " "What things are you so over?

People, trends, things, etc? #soverit" "is being a grandparent all the wonderful things people say it is? " "why the people like to know the worst things of the others?" "who are the people tha make things to happen?

All things happen for the best. " Do you believe that?

If she was that much into you then you wouldn't be here talking about her, and asking us what to do. Her Facebook and Instagram are more important than you. You are just wasting your time with that girl.

She's just using you. You can do so much better than that. Why don't you show her that she can’t play with your head, and your feelings by breaking up with her?

I know what you mean. I know people who are so nice and struggle for everything. I also know people who are selfish and everything seems to fall in their laps.

Sometimes Life sucks. :) LouLou 55 months ago.

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