A dear family member is going through chemo and losing hair, at what point should we shave it?

If so schedule a shaving party when she gets her hair done. Have a few close friends make it a "Spa day" with manicures and any other pampering your relative can enjoy. Pick a day so she has something to look forward to.

Most people going through chemo know how many days after the treatment they feel the best. Try to schedule your "girls day for then. Let the salon know about the circumstances so they can arrange for a bit of privacy.

You may also want to bring a few scarves for all of you to play with and wear. Depending on how close you are to the relative, you may want to join her in head shaving.

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