Can a guy forgive infidelity?

Ok...I'm assuming you are married and not just dating. I believe every person is entitled to have their own thoughts and beliefs but...to me cheating would be unacceptable. But to each his own.

Now, if you are married and this works for both of you ok, but perhaps if this is how you or others feel then maybe you shouldn't be married just have an open dating relationship. I don't know.To me personally my husband is my soulmate,my lover, my best friend, etc. I have no desire to cheat on him and I don't believe that he would cheat on me. I may be boring, but I love the stability and security of the same ol guy day after day and I can't even imagine being with anyone else.

I don't believe that cheating is unforgivable but it sounds like that if you have to find a way to forgive then perhaps it does bother you? I would sincerely like to hear more about your statement of 'I get horny and cheat but still love her'. I hear so much about people cheating but is it really possible that you are truly in love with this one girl?

Not love her, in love with her?

NO, not everyone is out cheating! To TRULY be in love with someone you would not break your marriage vows. With you caricature you will wind up divorced several times, and alone in you senior years.

Some day, someone you truly do love might cheat and leave you for the other man. I wonder if you will feel the same then, or if your world will crumble around you. If you don't take your marriage vows seriously why marry?

I cant really gove you an answer,but what I can give you is a way to a solution, that is you have to find the anglde that you relate to or peaks your interest. A good paper is one that people get drawn into because it reaches them ln some way.As for me WW11 to me, I think of the holocaust and the effect it had on the survivors, their families and those who stood by and did nothing until it was too late.