I am not a beautician. There are a couple of ways to relax curls that are too tight. One method is to use a chemical relaxer to break the molecular bonds in your hair.
This will relax your curls but will also damage your hair. The other method is to heat style your hair to soften the curls. From enotalone.com -quote KINKY:....Hair in this category is often chemically straightened or softened, which demands extra care and maintenance.
-endquote There are a couple of techniques you can use to heat style your hair and relax your curls. This is one of the most popular: Shampoo your hair and towel it dry. Comb a smoothing (and preferably heat protecting) conditioner through your hair.
Using a hot curling iron or hot comb, curl one, one-inch wide section of your hair at a time around the iron. Hold in place for a few seconds, then quickly release or blast with cold air to help set the curl in its new shape. To further set the curls, flip your head upside down and spray your hair with a loose hold hair spray.
You can also apply mousse to your hair before curling it to help set the curls.
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