I've had an affair.i need help reconciling with my husband?

You need to see a counselor, he needs to see a counselor, and it would be good for you both to go to someone together. If you are religious at all, someone from your place of worship can be helpful.

The only thing you can do is try and go back and remember why you fell in love in the first place, and he will probably never forget what happened but he needs to truly forgive and let go or it will never work. Best of luck to you both.

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