Because you have posted lots of things in the past and they have been received it doesn't mean you won't have anything go amiss. Its the law of averages I am afraid. Everyday thousands of letter and packages walk off within the system..Why didn't you send it signed for it costs about 20p more to send it that way and you can add it on to the price of postage.
You have to reimburse the money you owe and take it on the chin. If he has stolen from you it teaches you an expensive lesson to send things to ebayers as a signed for parcel...or packet...That way you know if they got it or not... Here is the price list for you to see the cost difference...Sorry you got bumped... http://www.royalmail.com/delivery/busine... Probably a desperate rangers fan you sent it to. They don't pay for much.....lol.
You should refund. I posted over 500 things and there always some package will be lost by post offece. You didn't lost don't mean you will not .
And a refund shouldbe ASAP to avoid Neg Feed back.
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